College APPs - the beginning of a new chapter

 

The moment you start college apps is when you realize it’s the real deal. You feel like you have been preparing the last 4 years for this, yet you still feel unprepared. The classes you took, the extracurriculars, SATs or ACTs are all preparations, but now, you’re starting an application process that will shape and decide your future, it’s a terrifying process. 


I’m sure everyone can relate that the pressure is undeniable. Your whole high school experience feels like it’s being summed up into essays and transcripts. The “what ifs” to torture your mind: What if my essays not good enough? What if my essay doesn’t have stylistic choices? What if I don’t have good grades or enough extracurriculars? And finally, what if I don’t get into my dream school? This is when your realize your life just became real, this is the first step for becoming an adult, living on your own, making your meals, you feel like your next steps are in your hand and you don’t want to screw it up. 


 But instead of dying due to pressure, realize that it’s a time for self discovery. Realize that those personal essays help you reflect on your identity. Realize that it’s more than trying to impress admission offices rather it’s about your growth, passions and overall potential. 



You have to understand that college might be a huge step in your life but it’s just the beginning. Among all this chaos of the college process, remember this is just the beginning. 

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